I will get back to you later today when my main connection is back up.
In the mean time, chew on this; YOU DID GOOD!! Don't do anything rash yet. Let's talk over some options.
Thank you NOPkins! I am very happy with how I handled it all. I think it was due to the great coaching I've been getting.
I will do nothing rash - I still have about 27 hours until the counseling session where I can ask questions. The book you recommended has a great section on getting to the facts in the chapter "The Story of the Affair".
After counseling I will look to my heart, to G_D and my guides, and to my DB friends for guidance.
Me 46 WAW 45 M 21 yrs
WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06 W moves out 3/07 Mediation finalized 08/08