D@mn Rob....God I hate it when people talk logic. I'm just *saying* that he could have handled the whole thing a lot better (in my mind). I guess I want him to feel like sh!t, but not really. I want him to have perspective. I want to be out of this stupid hell I'm in where I'm jealous that he's all comfy in our R and I'm still walking on eggshells. Still waiting for him to flake, to be the alien. Does that make sense?
H3ll yeah, it makes sense! I feel the same way sometimes - Gee, honey, do you think you could have found some better way to express your unhappiness with your life than to dump it all on me and go have an affair? Yeah, I guess I get your drift!
But we are where we are. We have just two choices now - let go of the past and move on to a better future, or cling to the past and be stuck forever. Hmmmm - as usual, the more fulfilling, personal-growth-oriented choice is also the more difficult one to do. And, of course, this choice isn't really about our spouses at all, is it?
Ah, so. The path of enlightenment for the DB Master continues.
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
