nickyf said everything I was going to say. Her 4th grade boyfriend? They most likely will not have anything in common anymore. Unless, oh, I dunno, she wants to shoot marbles and watch The Bugs Bunny Road Runner Show with him? They do the craziest things. If she chooses to go be with him, she'll own her choice and all the mistakes that come with it. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. Post here, read the other threads and gain strength.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
