This is all so awful, and there are so many of us going through it. I can't believe we are all living this nightmare, and I can't believe it might last for years and still end in divorce.
Yeah, it sux. I know you're all over the map with how you feel (today I'm in the New Zealand ;)). I keep hearing that it will get better and I move forward to that day. The most valuable thing I do for myself is move forward towards my goals (very hard). It takes conscious effort everyday. I walk alot and try to clear my head so that I can think about what I want. It gives me some comfort to know that most A's (EA or PA) don't make them happy (not really). That their too messed up to find what their looking for.
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Anyway, I'd appreciate your comments on my sitch. At some level, it helps to think my wife is in a MLC because then I don't take all the blame as a horrible husband. But knowing this is a MLC does not lessen the pain, loneliness, sense of loss or despair we feel.
This is NOT your fault. WAS's have a way of blaming us for everything, their unhappiness is internal. While we may not have been perfect or even at our best. They choose to walk away, which makes them quitters, not making us failures.
