He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

I got back today and right away had to ask if he communicated at all with Ow...why can't I just let it go - what does it matter? I feel he is trying to hide it so I will eventually divorce amicably (though he is willing to give me anything I want) he swears he has not talked to her and that he wants into an apt to think away from me and from her. Our mutual friend told him he needs to be on his own, he cannot see the Ow until he decides what he really needs to be happy - H seems to agree with his friend. We shall see.... I have been taking care of myself - eating right and exercising daily - lost those last hard 5 lbs to lose (thankful, I am not a stress eater!!!). I need to stop asking about her - this was a big backslide today and now I regret it big time! He's on his way home and the kids (and I too) cannot wait to see him. Longest we have been apart in 18 years....it's going to be real tough when he gets the apt...Thanks for your advice!!