30, that is some great soul searching you have done. Yes, I think patience is the hardest thing for us to go through right now but we learn alot from it. I don't think I will ever rush anything ever again!

Your discription of love addiction makes me wonder if that is one of my H's issues. He said to me a few times the week he left that he thought "he had a sickness" and that if he hadn't left, he would have cheated on me, etc.

Keep up the great work. So, what has the contact been between you and W lately?
If you need to email me or call me, let me know and I'll provide info. I'm totally up for talking. Chaflo called me yesterday and it couldn't have been at a better time. I think it helps to talk on the phone too; to hear a voice instead of reading all the time.


Me 31
WAH 30
M 5
Together 14 years
S 4
divorced 7/11/07