Piecing Advice

[SDFoundGirl]

Ah...thanks Jeff & Jen. Yes, I do feel like it's my turn, and I sort of resent H for being all comfortable when he caused all this commotion in the first place. So, I'm back concentrating on ME again. H is in a funk b/c of his work, and instead of yelling, "Well then, DO something about it!" I'm just validating and staying out of it. It's not my job to fix his life.

We had a good weekend. We sort of celebrated V-Day-ish this weekend...went tooling around because it was so nice outside (80s instead of 60s!), watched the sun set over the ocean, had a very low key meal, watched a movie...low key. I just can't handle anything that conveys expectation or pressure; I'm just not in that place. It's the casual interactions that are working for me right now, and that's where I want to keep it. Nothing that smacks of contrived romanticism....ick!

So today I danced around the house in my undies as I have the day off. I'm getting ready to go get a special treat (chocolate croissant from a local whole foods bakery and coffee) then go get some work done. I love it in my classroom when it's quiet...I get a lot accomplished!

So, thanks again. I'm really thankful for outside opinions; I think sometimes we're just too close to the sitch to be able to be objective.

Back on the GAL/PMA train...

SD