Thanks for your reply Hope. He is not a normal, sane man, that is obvious.
I think the phone call was an attempt to keep me hanging on. I already knew he had spent the weekend with her, he was trying to do damage control. He didn't want me to think that things were just wonderful with them. It's weird.
He is defiantly trying to keep me as an option. I think he is starting to worry that I might not be there though. I spent most of last year trying to convince him that what he was doing was wrong, and that he needed to come home. I have finally dropped the rope, and now he is starting to worry.
I think the A may have finally fizzled out this time for good, but only time will tell. I don't think he would have told me about it this soon if he thought he was going to see her again. In a warped way, I think he wanted me to tell him I was proud of him for ending it. He wants me to respect him, because right now, I don't think he respects himself.