Hope, I know that trust has to be earned back. I hope with time, he can do that. But frankly, he has done so much to break the trust, over and over again. I just hope and pray that he can find his own way because he wants to, not becuase he thinks I am making him.
NJ, Good for you changing your name. And what's best, is yoru abbreviation is the same as my wonderful state of New Jersey.
I know he is struggling. And he is seemingly doing the right thing, but frankly I don't know. I haven't snooped so he could be still talking to OW. I guess I'm at a point where I need to let go and let him make his own decisions. And if he continues to make the wrong decisions, he'll damage himself severely.
So, I was thinking of changing my name the other day, but coulnd't figure out how to do it without creating a whole new profile. But IHJ (NJ) has inspired me. I actually already created another profile, I just didn't use it yet. ONly thing is, the pictures seem to be gone. So I can't do another picture. And it also will only show me as regisgered since today, which is no big deal, I suppose. The old way, you could change your name within your existing profile.