"Every time since then, she's treated me like a child molester or something."
I think that she distances herself from you because she does not know how to love you due to what she has gone thru in her life.
A relative of mine finally faced her demons (is that how you say it?) due to molestation at a very young age. She needed help and sought it but it took her a long time.
I think people in a situation like that really are afraid and it is not because of you personally, it is because of what they have been thru and they are very afraid.
Healing takes a long time.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19