Ouch!! Tough conversation but I am glad you stood up for yourself and the kids! DON'T do anything you don't want too! If you want to wait two years than do it!! It is not the end until we make it the end! My advice would be not to talk to him again until he initiates it! As far as OW (my major problem right now!!My H told me the other day he is sleeping with OW)) don't let it bother you...all the statistics show that it will not last!! Make your R your focus and if you decide you no longer want it, I will support any decisions you make.