Well my husband went to see another lawyer and he said it would cost no more than $600 to get a divorce in 90 days. He will sign a paper giving me owner ship of the house and the money to make the mortgage payments and that would be considered my child support. I said I am also going to talk to a lawyer and that I will not be signing any thing any time soon! I am not comfortable with all this and I need to make sure that the children and I are take care of. He was telling how he need to have a place to his own and he can't live on 500 a month, I said well not my problem and you should have thought about that before you did this! I said I do not care about you or her I am doing what's right by the kids and me. I am for the first time going what I feel and not what everyone else say I should do. This felt good to say this to him and I also said I did not like that he was bulling by saying do you want to spending $$ on lawyers if I did sign what he wanted. I don't have to do anything for 2 years and there nothing he can do about it.I do believe he was surprised by this. He thought I was just going to sign and say ok. NOT! He said he was getting a second job and I said what happened to that. He said he wasn't doing that until the weather was better.He doesn't want to work a second job and he knows it. I told him I don't trust me everything for the last 9 months has been one lie after another. He claims he is not sleeping with her because he still has issues in that department. I said I don't believe you. Is this the end? Do I let him go at this point? Help please!
