Why's he got to invite you? Why don't you bring home a bottle, maybe grab a nice Belgian (beer that is!) and share a nice moment. Yeah, you are being motherly - but it's because you care. He's hiding it for two reasons - he knows you're right and he doesn't want you to worry either. It's a sign that he cares.
Have fun, be a bit rebellious. He sounds like he's not having much fun with you these days. What did you guys used to do for fun back when you were in love? What can you do now to get his heart thumping? Excitement increases feelings of love and togetherness. I've even heard that it's good for couples to have near-death-experiences every few years! I'm not advocating this, just saying that something to up the excitement level would be a good thing.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
