Lissett, Never tell your "enemy" what you are going to do. This is war. But in a "peaceful" sense. He does not have a clear plan. So don't play into his "stuff." In other words, don't do anything right now. There will be all the time in the future to retaliate. But you will find, in time, that this is not what you wish to do.
I love this quote from Mickey, it seems so appropriate to me now. Don't tell him your plans, and just give yourself time...your "instincts" now aren't the best, and they will change with time.
I posted the name and author of a book on my thread that I'm really liking as far as talking to kids. I also have others but I like this one so far.
