You sound really good. I'm glad you had a good time last night, it sounded nice.
You're right that you need to try to not worry about what your H is doing. It will drive you crazy.
It's nice to look forward to time alone. You can turn the focus back to yourself and having peace in your life.
I sincerely hope your H get the position he is interviewing for. Working away from the OW and structure would be wonderful!! And you are right money isn't everything.
