In the old thread, you mentioned that the OM in your sitch treated your wife poorly. Is this what brought her around? I am asking because the OM in my sitch is not trating my W poorly. He is all over her with the ILU e mails and who knows cards and letters. I just hope that the DB techniques will still be effective when the OM looks like a saint to my W. This has been a tough 24 hours, she was really withdrawn yesterday, partially because she was tired and partially because who knows why. I am trying to detach when she is like that and only engage when she takes the lead on engaging, but wow it really takes strength.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
