I think that if GAL works, it is for that very reason. When we stop being dependent on them for our identity and happiness, then they start to see a "new" us, and I guess that new person is somehow attractive to them. Presents possibilities that wern't there before.(they had always been there, WAS just couldn't/can't see them.)

I know what you are saying though, I wen't out and spent most of the night just listening to music. I talked to the guys in the band some, but limited interaction with anybody else, just don't feel comfortable.


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"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis