Well, last night went well. We put our Son to sleep, I stayed in her bed while we watched t.v. and she held my hand. It felt good because she said until she is comfortable, she doesn't want any intimacy between us. I agree, because it hasn't been that long since she was with the OM. She is ready to go at it full force, once he is gone.I will keep DBing, and take things baby step after baby step. IT feels good to have reached the first plateu of this very hard to climb mountain. But I will rest here until we both have the strength to move forward. It has been a stressful six months of seperation, but we both feel a little better.
For those who want to read my whole sitch: go to infedelity,EA forum and read the first page of got news she wants to be with OM.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.