I am not going to snoop any more. As said by many wise people, I am not responsible for my H. I am not his mother. If he wants to continue this now EA with this women thats up to him. In doing this I leave it all to the Lord to deal with. Last week I almost blew it. I went on and on about his accountability with me about his phone, email and texts with the OW. At the end of the heated discussion he told me we were not moving forward with our R - but backwards, and he knew I would never trust him and so he thought he would end it. He does make me so angry as I do find it hard to trust him, and he can't see why!!!! But anyway for my mind's sake I will act "as if" and leave the rest to him and what the Lord does with him.