Oh Lil, You don't know the half of it. I have been a disabled person the last few months. Only recently have I stopped walking with a limp. I haven't really brought it up, but I really should have, because it's impacted the marriage. H had stepped up big time to take care of the household stuff, and I am forever grateful. Like with Karen's accident, the love and commitment stuff become highlighted ( no wonder I am knocked out of fantasyland).
Anyway, I need to start a new thread. Jenny, my apologies for hijack # 50 million.