On Lord Grenville's thread, Nops posted: Since a confrontation without a full set of facts is inevitable, it is important to realize that she is going to lie to you, and when she tells the "truth" it will be partial and minimized. Examples: "Just a kiss" is probably a BJ.
I'd just like to say, that is not always true
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."