So sorry to hear about your day. I think the key is in your statement "there is always something negative to be pointed out, even in the good I do". No matter what you do, it's not enough. This is the mindset of our S's these days. My W isn't as vocal but she's damn sure not going to let me feel I'm doing anything good! My God, it might bring us closer! Your W wants to push you away. You cried because you were hurt, understandably. She was a real bitch who right now is exercising the only power she feels she has, to rip the sh!t out of you. Even when you've managed to toughen up the old skin, there are still days when these things sting. Hope tomorrow is a better day.
