He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

I am willing to wait and see what he wants. I have survived the long weekend away from him - he left 3 voice msgs on the cell last night when he did not hear from us. I think he was missing us and just cannot admit it. I cannot not talk to him though - if he calls I want to call him back. He called again today (we are still in WI until tomm) and had to leave another msg. I called him back and our conversation just flowed so nice. I miss him so much - how am I going to handle him moving into an apt? He did price them and he's going to do a 6 mos lease - to figure himself out...I have this week and next to do the 180 stuff and 'Act If' to further his doubts - then he will be on his own...with kids on the weekends....This is going to blindside them big time! This is going to be so hard - I have been so patient and I know we are far from ending it...