I hear people laughing and talking in the background and it makes my stomach sick.
I often wonder if the WA's do this to try to prove that their sh*tty life is wonderful. Let it go, he will definitely "get" his, even if we don't see or hear it.
My H looks like crap, so he can pretend whatever he wants. I know that he is not spending every day with our wonderful sons and he knows very little about how they are really doing, how they are feeling, their happiest and saddest moments. By the time, he gets around to spending his hour or two every week to two weeks or longer with them, we have already dealt with or enjoyed their daily events. Sometimes he gets to hear about them and if they are no longer in the forefront, he doesn't. His decisions, his loss. They can have their OW and their wonderful new friends, I will take our children, family members, and long time friends over that any day!!
Last edited by iluv2teach; 02/18/0710:23 PM.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
