Thank you NOPkins for your very clear and concise advice. I know it will help me later tonight when THE conversation begins.
This afternoon I am feeling more willing to try to work on forgiveness, but a lot will depend on how she handles her side of the situation. I will do my best to listen without getting too angry or demanding.
I just got a copy of "Not Just Friends". I will begin reading it momentarily, and it will also be placed in a visible location in our small living space.
I look forward to your incremental posts.
Grazie,
Marc
Me 46 WAW 45 M 21 yrs
WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06 W moves out 3/07 Mediation finalized 08/08
