So you have to go thru the separation b/c your "credibility" is on the line? Or your pride? It's often a blurry, shifting line. Whatever you do, don't do it for the wrong reasons. It is a constant struggle for me to know when I am enforcing a healthy boundary, and when I am being punitive. I can be a dangerously good rationalizer.

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M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change