Bruce, I am one of those newbies just starting the journey. I do appreciate hearing there is a new life out there. I am just so blind now that I can not see this and want to try to hold on to the past or start a new begining with my WAS. She has lost all feelings towards me and refuses to work on M due to me missing messages past 3 years. I do need to wake up and move on with my life. I as well just don't know where to go or what I want due to everything being the family that I just lost. I really do not have any friends or social groups that I belong to so I really feel alone. Enough about me here. This is a celebration on you and your moving on with your life. Great job and I hope that I can follow in your footsteps.