A stand was needed at that time. I do not have half of the issues that are going on with you and wish that I could be as strong as you are now. My wife simply has lost feelings for me and does not want to work on the M due to me not listening years ago to her messages and now she is emotionally shut down. Anyway, there is always hope and one thing that I am learing is that we need to lookout for ourselves first. This is what you did. Do not leave this board for you will have much support here. As well I need to learn from you as well.