Where are you? I didn't realize you were not "stateside."
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This not wanting to take sides is just stupid and cowardly. She can say she doesn't approve of his conduct, and endorse that she disapproves of the children being introduced to the OW, and will not facilitate this.
I have felt this way about MIL and FIL, too, but thought I was being selfish and inconsiderate. I feel as if they can let him know they don't approve even though they love him dearly. I hve already told my Ss that I won't interfere in their lives but I won't pretend I agree with everything they do if I think they are being hurtful and/or self destructive.
Oh, BTW, I just made brownies, too.
Last edited by iluv2teach; 02/18/0705:01 PM.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.