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Since you are old enough to be my mom

Ouch. He doesn't seem so nice now does he Mojo?
Maybe that was his point.
Mean mean man.

Mojo, I thought your top/bottom descriptions were perfect. And I agree, HDW who approaches as a top and the man makes her the bottom. Yep. That's good stuff. Nothing hotter.

But alas, as BF states
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Some dont want to go anywhere near the edge, and some are constantly dangling from it. Figure out which one your man is and figure out how to assist him to a middle ground. You picked him afterall. Take responsibility for your decision.

That is what I am trying to do now and what I have been referring to when I mention acceptance. Most men are not the "I'll top her top" type. And even when they are (the man I dated while I was S was certainly one of them), they often lack other qualities (like holding a decent intellectual conversation) that negate (at least some) ;\) of their sexual skill.
So the point being there is no perfect person in this world and certainly no perfect mate. You need to adjust to what the person is capable of bringing to the R/M or simply be miserable and wanting.
But it is fun to discuss it.