What I was trying to convey with my woman in the field scenario and the paragraph that you dissed was some sort of reasonable compromise between female and male mature sexuality. The reason I was trying to do this was because let's say the HD guys on this BB are successful at bringing out the HD in their women. What next? How in the h*ll are they going to handle HD women if they can't even handle LD women?
Let's say that I am a HD woman who is fully sexual and fully aware of my desire to be dominated sexually. There are two scenarios that will arise if I attempt to express my sexuality which in my experience the vast majority of men can't deal with. The first being a scenario in which I start out playing "top" and ask to be "flipped" the second being a scenario in which I am straight-forwardly signaling "bottom" without being coy.
In the first scenario I am walking towards the man across the field with a fully loaded tank of estrogen/testosterone mix. In other words, I am seriously horny and attracted to the man. I am signaling "I am going to f*ck your brains out.". A certain percentage of men will turn tail and run immediately and comfort themselves with mysogynistic thoughts. Most of the rest will fall to the ground in shock and awe that a woman actually wants to f*ck their brains out. Some will be more casual and signal back "Yeah, baby, f*ck my brains out.". I have yet to meet the man who would actually signal back "No, baby, I am going to f*ck YOUR brains out.". Now some would say that I am just wrongheaded to want to behave in this manner, not very "ladylike" sort of "maneater-esque". They may be absolutely right in many ways. However, there is one thing that I know is true. If I ever met the man who could "top" my "top" the sex would be so hot the earth beneath us would be scorched black.
In the second scenario in which I signal "bottom" without being coy the problem is that my signal of "bottom" is frequently heard as "low self-esteem". Men believe that the bunny that doesn't run is injured or sick and therefore not likely to be very tasty. Men don't get that sometimes the bunny doesn't run because the rabbit wants to be caught. The bunny likes the sensation of the sharp teeth on her soft belly.
Anyway the discussion of the problems that I've outlined above is sort of my recommended syllabus for Alpha Male 401. I am sorry for interrupting your 101 class Professor Blackfoot.
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