Sex Drive and Life Style

[MJontheMend]

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When you H bit you on the leg, what was he appealing too?

Well, I think that you and I would be on the same page answering this question but in recent years when I asked my H why he did that he said "I was just being playful, not sexual.".

Tell you what, you stay on your side of the fence, and Ill stay on mine. LOL.

That's not very neighborly. Don't come knocking on my door hoping to borrow a cup of sugar with that attitude. JKLOL

Id like to hear one HDW in here who wouldnt love for her H to pick her up throw her over his shoulder and stomp up to the bedroom with the intention of having his way with her, while she struggled and 'wrestled' against him. I would love to see GGB do that. or just blow thru her resistance by 'teasing' her up and down to having a real O or just pinning her down and 'making' her O. shrug. all in good time.

Yeah, and I'd love it if MsHD would stop her internal chant of "Yes means Yes and NO means NO whatever I wear and wherever I go." (or at least put it in context) and greet HD at the door some evening nekkid except for a pair of pink panties with "Naughty Butt Nice" printed on the *ss.

That takes a lot of 'guts' for a man to do and then figure out if she really doesnt want it, or if she is just 'playing' or insecurely objecting. It takes even more for a guy who wants to be 'respectful' 'nice' and not push her 'boundaries' when she is saying 'dont do that'.

I totally agree with what you are saying here. What I would add from my HD female perspective is that it takes even more guts for a man to deal with a woman who is coming on strong than one who is being resistant. It's easier to chase the woman who is acting like she doesn't want to be caught across the field than it is to meet the woman halfway across the field who is walking towards you with full intent in her open eyes. It's easier to play the lion when the woman is playing the gazelle than when the woman is playing the lioness.

I would imagine that the emotions of being a father and the wonder and appreciation would more then compensate for the temporary physical and visual changes.

Well, I wasn't accusing you of being a superficial *zz ( I think you are a wonderful Alpha Male Nice Boy )because of what you posted. I was just reflecting on my own experience.