I'm new here and need help

[hannahsmom]

Do NOT overanalyze! I am still working on this...it is hard not to try to "connect the dots" between every little positive or negative thing that your S does and try to project a trend! The Rollercoaster image does not accurately depict what is going on in our sitches because these "cars" aren't even on a track

FH - this is excellent advice - as is most I've gotten from all the great folks on this board
I have been very guilty of overanalyzing - lately I have been better - I am taking the day at a time approach

My H is in counseling - I am hoping that this will result on an epiphany on his part that he needs to slow it down and look at what is really going on in his head

Meanwhile I am trying to stay upbeat
luckily the GAL philosophy will keep me going regardless of what happens - and everytime I feel like it is not doing any good - I try to remember that at least it will help me be stronger

thanks for the good advice and prayers -