Well, today was another baby step. She is going out with some friends tonight. As she was leaving I noticed that she is wearing her ring. She took it off a couple of months ago. I didn't say anything about it and I don't intend to. Patience is everything right now. Staying calm when the WAS starts to turn around as recommended in DR is tough. I just have to keep the joy I feel inside. Funny how something simple as W wearing her ring again can have such an affect. I also did very well at not making an issue about where she is going, who is going or what they will be doing. I plan on being asleep when she gets home. I took the kids to dinner, had a great time with them and they are in the process of getting ready for bed. We will chill, watch some TV and wind down. Pretty happy with everything so far.
Still no ILY. That's okay, at least she put the ring back on for tonight anyway.
I've been following the advice given in my phone consultation to the letter. I think part of the incentive found in the phone consultation is the bottom line, its $400.00. I don't know about anyone else, but I don't have that kind of money to just throw it away. I need to make it count. This has motivated me to really apply myself to these principles.
Off to the get the kids out of the bath and ready for bed. Hopefully the next time I get on here it will be to share more positives. The setbacks just suck.
