Ophelia, I really feel for you and I sincerely know what you are going through and how painful it is.
Girl, you need to start doing some things for yourself. You need to exercise - simply because it makes you feel happier. You need to get out and meet friends and spend more time with your family. Moping around and grieving is only making this worse for you.
This is an opportunity in your life to turn things around. Shake them up. No magic Mr Happiness is going to knock on your door, you've got to get out there and make it happen for you.
How are your goals going?
Think about the woman you were before you started seeing your husband. Think about what it was about you that attracted him to you. Now go and get that back.
It's time to get a life and make it a good one.
I'm sorry if this seems harsh, but I just hear you talking over and over about how sad you are, but I'm not hearing much of what you are doing to manage that.
This is about you. It's about your life and what you are going to do to make it remarkable.
Go on .... you can do it. _________________________ Virginia
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
