Hi there, I don't have much time but wanted to say quickly: don't know what state you're in, but in my state whoever leaves the house without a legal agreement in place is guilty of ABANDONMENT. So the best thing for YOU is to stay in the house.
If she wants to separate, you cannot stop her. You CAN tell her it's not something you want to do, but you understand how she might feel this way. etc.
I'm sorry for your pain. It's so difficult to process all the possibilites, so DON'T. Drive off each bridge as you come to it
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
