Sex Drive and Life Style

[MJontheMend]

Mojo, manytimes your posts and analogies are simply brilliant. [cough]This is not one of those times. [cough] I think your work out burned some fat cells and released some latent THC from your youth. hehe.

I wish, I'm afraid I'm still working on this year's Xmas cookies.
FYI, what I was actually thinking was f*cking brilliant and totally Post-Schnarchian but it just didn't come out right in type.

Ive never said anything about telling a woman to have sex with you.

I'm too lazy to search around the threads but I know that somewhere you said something like "In my experience whenever I've simply told a woman to do something she has done it. She might fuss a bit but eventually she does it.". Mayhaps you weren't referring to sex when you said this but if this is a universal truth about women why wouldn't it work for sex too?

Thats what a womans testing is designed to expose and eliminate. Some just dont know when to stop, because its harming them, not protecting them.

I don't quite get this womans testing concept. I think I must have flunked that course at Miss Godey's Charm School for Young Misses.

Uhhuh. even though HOW its done is important-- since this is a venue of words, your suggesting that the men should supplicate. stop that. You cant 'tell' anyone to do anything. They always have a choice.

I'm NOT suggesting that men should supplicate. I absolutely agree that my use of the words "tell" and "ask" was unfortunate. I'll think about what I was trying to say some more and try to do better in a future post.

The guy who held your hand didnt tell you what to do, he told you what he wanted to do to you. You were free to react as you wished. You could have slapped him and acted shocked and offended. You could have been 'disgusted'. You chose to be open to it.

But please remember that I am sort of a clueless Dodo bird when it comes to men because I was raised by a gentle man in a family of sisters. When I was in high school I had a persistent obscene phone caller who just made me curious when he said things like "I'm going to leave a jar of sperm on your desk.". Instead of hanging up on him I would just be wondering how he was going to manage that.