DBing is a good cover for 'self help'. That has always been my take on this. You make yourself bettter learning along the way how to interact in different ways with people, specifically your spouse and look sometimes this f-ing crazy person comes back to the new improved you.
By the way you already knew no one here was going to let you go, but I am so glad that everyone was so insistant that you stay.
So...just cause I like to be different : ) I think you should go. Just kidding. Lis, we are all hypocritss here at times. All my good advice is what I KNOW I should be doing, but I do not always follow the advice I give...I think we all have that problem. So just because you believe you are getting a divorce doesn't mean you can't bhe here anymore.
You are the QUEEN of detachment, so you have to stay, your subjects will not let you leave.
We all love you here Lis, you really are the life of this board.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
