Everything has been about said. Puffy is an idiot right now. What you said to him was fabulous - the truth. The truth will set your heart free to feel again and to love again. Sometimes we have to get to the point where enough is enough. That despite their demons and problems, we have to protect ourselves, our children, and our hearts. One day puff diddly squat will wake up and realize what he did. You probably will have moved on but he will have a lifetime of consequences for his behaviors.
As far as you going to a different board. I need you here. Your wisdom on this subject is priceless.
Hugs my dear.
Me: 45 H: 43 Married: 19 years Dated 05 years Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"