It's not that we haven't ML for 4 years, it's the hot and cold spells during that time since she started working nights
Oh I see!
I am so with you on it all. All I want to do is make my H happy in every way and have a whole M and a whole H instead of this. I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. Being separated from H was awful. Piecing with no ML is awful.
