Yes it is very important - more so now than ever because I need some reassurance. I know you are right that it would be a shame to throw everything I've worked for away for the sake of a couple of months of patience. If I thought that was all it would take I could handle it. But it has taken a month to get from a peck to a half hearted don't really want to do this "proper" kiss. So given how many more steps there are to ML stage this is going to take months and months and months.
I have thought I should maybe get the SSM book. I just wonder if H isn't prepared to step out of his comfort zone there isn't a lot can be done.
I have spoken to H and he says he knows how I feel and is sorry I'm upset and he doesn't want me to be. He says he'll try to push himself to try more but then doesn't. And I don't want him to have to push himself I want him to want to! I'll check out the relate site. H did say he'd look at c if it went on a long time but his version of a long time and mine are different apparently.
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You always manage to make me laugh when I'm down!! Wish I was that kind of person but unfortunately for me I'm not. Good way of illustrating your point though - like it!
Thank you for being so caring Jen. Posting on here and getting some replies when I feel like jacking it in is the only thing stopping me walking out right now. Thank you.
You always manage to make me laugh when I'm down!! Wish I was that kind of person but unfortunately for me I'm not. Good way of illustrating your point though - like it!