Well, I read that it's easiest to catch an affair on Valentines day and unfortunately, I did just that. I heard a phone call with my husband and OW with very intimate details that blew my mind. I could not believe this was the same person I was married to. He has not been interested in sex for a long time, but said it was due to stress- I'm so stupid! Anyway, he has been very apologetic and says it's over, but I can't believe it from what I heard on the phone call. I don't believe you could end something that intense in one day. I have read both DB books, but cannot get past the ranting, raving stage. I know he would rather be with the other woman over his crying, depressed wife, but I can't help myself. Can anyone let me know what helped them days after the affair? Thanks
