I wholeheartedly disagree that a spouse of a potential cheater should ignore the facts. Hiding your head in the sand is irresponsible.
The simple fact is that if your spouse or partner is engaging in sex with someone else, and has sex with you also, puts your life at risk.
I am personally appalled that people are instructed to engage in practices that could potentially threaten their life.
Secrets kill marriages. You have a right; in fact a responsibility, to know the truth.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.