Journey of a Happy Heart

[princess_nic]

COG: I hope to hear about some steam coming out of the COG house very soon!

Mermaid:

Also I am wondering what concerns him about the length of time. I thought mlc typically took this long anyway. I ask this because I think my h has battled depression since I have known him.

I told Conway that my H has been depressed (I think) for at least five years, posssibly 8, and off and on for 11, ever since I was pg with D10. The replay stage of MLC started about four years ago, I think, but it's hard to remember. He's been going out w/ friends w/o me and drinking a lot for a really long time. I don't think that this length of time (say, 8 yrs) is normal for MLC. It is, however, normal for untreated depression. I think that's what Conway was getting at. Hope that clarifies things for you.

Also, I think flirting in the early stages of my sitch (but not very early) is what helped him decide to break off w/ ow.

ISLH: You are so lovely to keep checking in on me. Thanks for support and words of wisdom. I really appreciate it. So what's up with you? I read your post on PL's thread. Are you feeling any better?

Jeff and Christy: Thanks for stopping by. I'm still thinking positive!!!

Luv: I think it probably ends up being about the same as the DB coaches if you talk for that length of time. I'm not really comfortable talking about it here, as I don't think it's really appropriate. You can check out his website and contact his secretary; she can give you the details.