Dear Lissett, You did the right thing, you belong here, please do not leave this Board.
DBing does not mean, IMO that we are doormats, or that we tolerate the intolerable. As Was2sad said [and I saved this] MLC "is not a get out of jail free card for every horrible insult and injury they must inflict on us to see if it makes them feel better in their search for their elusive life happiness." Bingo. Once again you displayed total integrity, which if that imbecile that you have the current misfortune to be married to [I make no judgement on his former states] ever wakes up from his MLC stupor, he will truly regret his trashing.
But, and this ia a bit BUT, I am concerned that he made no attempt prior to MLC to realise/accept that his half brother is a risk to his own children.
As it says in the Bible, - it is better a millstone be placed around a person's neck and they are cast into the deepest ocean han they should harm a child, or suffer them to be harmed. You must protect your children at all costs, and yourself. It is not good dbing to allow abuse - bad for you and the kids, and actually bad for puffy to get away with it.