Good for you. Don't think of it as not dbing. Sometimes dbing is doing something different. It does not matter anyway. You have to do what is right for you and your children. I know you are done with Puffy but try not to let this all get you down. You know you are a wonderful person and great mom. All this stuff he is spewing is his mlc brain spewing.
Take some time for yourself. You will be fine. There is only one way to go now and that is up. You have a great future ahead of you and such great family support.
You certainly do not and cannot leave the mlc board. We are your friends and besides you will have to deal with an mlcer for a long time to come so you will need the mlc support.
I am thinking of you and I have you in my prayers.