I just want to say that i admire you for standing up for yourself. Maybe it was not good DB, but who cares right?, you told Puffy exactly how you felt and i think that he deserved to hear it, after all we are only human.
Maybe now you can go back to being detached, he knows exactly how you feel and time will tell on whether what you said rang home with him. I too, have vented on a couple of occasions and it is'nt usually long before my husband is ok with me again.
I think that you have done the right thing for you and i for one am proud.
Take care
Nicky
Me 34 H 33 D3 together 10 years married 2 years Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved