Aid, He can discover his spirit. He may not have much to get back in the true vein of spirit. He had charisma, he had charm, but spirit and faith in other people he can nurture, grow and discover. That is the hopefulness of being human. We continually learn our whole lives. The most powerful learning tool is "mistakes". Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.