Too late Hairdog - I finished building the work bench earlier today. But if she doesn't appreciate it, I will start focusing on building things in my life sooner.
I don't think my W is involved with anyone else....yet. But I do worry that she might be on the lookout. She did stop wearing her wedding ring on her ring finger about 4 weeks ago supposedly because, as she put it : "I am so fat, it doesn't fit anymore". Well the fact is that she has actually lost about 30 or 40 pounds in the past weeks and is getting very close to her former healthy weight, so I would bet that if she took the wedding band off her right pinkie, she might find it would fit nicely now back where it belongs.
Would it be appropriate for me to ask her to try fitting it on her ring finger again? I am really having difficulty knowing how to act without being seen as controlling.
I guess I am off to bed too.
Marc
Me 46 WAW 45 M 21 yrs
WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06 W moves out 3/07 Mediation finalized 08/08
