Oh Hi InHerJourney,

I didn't see your post as I was composing tonight's update...

How can I discourage my W from fantasizing about an affair, while I am trying to be less controlling?

Me 46
WAW 45
M 21 yrs

WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06
W moves out 3/07
Mediation finalized 08/08

LG's 1st Thread
LG's 2nd Thread